Barbara Cashman | The Relationship Hub
Relationship Therapist | Sex Addiction Therapist
Based in Oxshott, Surrey- available for in person consultations or flexible online video sessions
MA Relationship Therapy · Accredited Relate Practitioner · BACP Register · MNCPS (Acc) · Fully insured
Relationship therapy for couples, families and individuals
Why I do this
Too many people feel stuck, unseen or lonely in their own home. When we feel safe enough to speak honestly and be heard, relationships can change.
My work is to help you find clarity, courage and connection again..
I'll confirm your time within 24 hours. Secure video sessions, or in person in Oxshott
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Is this for you?
My clients often feel stuck, alone, anxious, misunderstood or unloved. Online sessions can be a simple, private way to begin making change.
Individuals
Understand your options and make the decisions that help you feel fulfilled again.
Couples
You may feel angry after betrayal, scared to trust again, or worn down by living with destructive behaviour. Couple therapy can repair a relationship when both partners accept the need to change. It can also bring clarity about why a relationship can't carry on.
Families
Learn to blend together, navigate a separation while protecting the children, or share difficult truths in a safe place. Family therapy gives everyone a fair and equal voice, and ends with practical next steps.
Does it work?
Q: Does online therapy work?
Therapy works when you accept you can only change yourself. Research and my own experience show online therapy can be as effective as in-person work — what matters most is your commitment to the process.
Q: How many sessions will I need?
We'll agree a plan that suits your goals: short-term from six sessions, or open-ended. Online appointments make it easier to attend consistently, and consistency is what makes progress smoother.
Q: How do sessions work?
- Request a free 15-minute call.
- Choose online or in person in Oxshott.
- Begin weekly sessions — a secure video link is sent before each one.
- Review progress together every four to six sessions.
You'll leave each session with at least one practical step and more emotional clarity.
With commitment, you'll start to think, act and connect in more fulfilling ways, moving forward with greater confidence and self-compassion.
What issues can counselling help with?
Support is available across five areas. If what you're facing isn't listed, please ask — the chances are I can help or point you to someone who can.
Relationships
Affairs and betrayals · Communication breakdown · Separation and divorce · Cross-cultural relationships · Pre-nuptial counselling
Emotional wellbeing
Anxiety · Depression · Low self-esteem · Anger management · Stress and work-related stress
Family and life transitions
Blended family issues · Family conflict · Bereavement
Behavioural difficulties
Addiction · Emotional abuse · Passive-aggressive behaviour · Self-harm
Neurodiversity
Autism and Asperger's in relationships · ADHD and couple dynamics
Sex Addiction | CSBD
When relationships feel alive and hopeful again, everything shifts - here's what my clients say
Start with a free 15-minute conversation to explore what feeling safe and connected again could look like for you
You can call me on 07919972430 if you prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. Alternatively you can sent me an email
All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.
Fees & availability
Each session lasts 1 full hour
Individuals : £ 100
Couples : £ 120
Family: (3 people or more) £ 150
CSBD work : please call me for a chat
I provide a free of charge initial 15 minute conversation on Zoom/Teams/Google Meet or over the phone to answer your questions and to see if I am the best suited therapist for you. Get in touch to check my availability.
My private practice is based in Oxshott, Surrey, where I see individuals, couples, families. I see clients from the surrounding Cobham, Leatherhead, Esher, Bookham and East Horsley areas.